Tag: Motivational

Preserve a positive attitude in a 24×7 basis, is a dream for many of us. The jiffies are mixing with positive and negative emotions. If we draw a graph, it’s a like a surge of ups and downs, never this is a graph of a positive straight line. We must habitually devote our time to acquire and trial the practices to make the “positive attitude” is the natural characteristic of our day to day life.

Being a positive attitude person, all day is not a goal. This is the essential prerequisite to lead a joyful and prosperous life. If we are not sighted the things in the right attitude, even a gratifying moment turn out to be onerous. If we can see the stuff in a positive attitude, even facinorous issues turn into the abundant prospect. It’s all about the mindset!

A positive attitude person grasps opportunities in every problem, but a negative attitude person perceives the problem in every opportunity. When we decide on to live with a positive attitude, we never flop in whatever activities we involved, and the feat is the only result. Either we win or we learn, this is the vital personality of a positive person. Once the positive attitude is the natural characteristic of us, we never find an issue or problem in our life.

When we were born, we came into this world with an unclothed crying baby. Today we garb a decent attire and getting food to endure without many aggravations, So, already we are in profit! We never lost, that is the verity.

So, why we need to disquiet? The major slayer of a positive attitude is fear. Nothing but the “Fear of Failure” or another way we can say “Fear of Future”. What will happen to me? What will happen to my family? My business? etc…

If we apprehend the rudiments of this FEAR and get rid of it…, YES, You Got It!!! That’s the secret of keeping us a positive person always and that’s the secret key to unlock the door of Success!!!

Today many of us living in fear and depression. Many of us suffering from the pain of failures and the melancholy part is many of us anguished with their triumph to preserve their status quo. The angst and dejection are the result of perturbing about the future. The simple description of fear is “an emotion which is created based on the imagination of future failures, which is not present and true”.

Our self-confidence is juddering between positive and negative defiance. Is there a way to keep a positive attitude all the time? Yes, we can empower ourselves, to take charge of our lives and write our own destiny choosing HOPE instead of FEAR all the time without pointing our fingers to the external world.

We can decide wherever we want to go…

We can decide whatever we want to conquer…

We write our own fortune…

Just keep the positive attitude…

The world is ours!!!

This life is a journey of possibilities and new happenings. Nothing called Misery or Failures. Just Discoveries and Revelries!

Let’s celebrate this life, not worry about it…

Let’s keep a new perspective in our thought process and be a doorway to the World of Opportunities and Accomplishments!!!

Here are my master’s words,

“There are many things human beings can design but the greatest form of design is if you become the designer of your own life”

I wish you all to enter the World of New Possibilities, Exploring New Horizons and New Beginnings of our life Every New Day!!!

Wisdom of Uncertainty is the fundamental knowledge one should aware to lead a Joyful, Peaceful, Fulfilled and Successful life.

Life is all about uncertainties. Do we have any guarantee card for tomorrow, next hour, next minute or even next moment? No Guarantee!!! Oops… This is the fundamental fact we all know, but we don’t want to remember this fact all the time. Our mind is always thinking about the past events or worried about the future, but very hard to stay in the present moment. Most of the time it recycles the past bad memories which we didn’t enjoyed or about future with the thought “What will happen?”. We are living our life at the surface level. Lets’ go beyond the surface and deep dive into the real factors.

Lets’ understand the fundamental factors of life. Not through the stories what we heard from others. Lets’ analyze through our own experiences. When someone ask, who are you? The immediate answer is, I am so & so, which may be the name, designation, degree etc. When we born, we are nothing. Over the period, we identified with what we gather from this mother earth. Those all are the things, we earned but that’s not you or me. Just a title cards we gained.

By our own experience, we can surely know the following key factors defined you or me,

– The Body

– The Mind

– The Emotions

– The Life Energy

We must understand the fundamentals of those 4 factors.

What is the source of this body? When we born, we are small. Now we have this big body? How its created? The food what we ate from our birth to till this moment. Ultimately the accumulation of food is the body. It just came from the mother earth. We all know, when the death comes, we can’t carry this. We must leave this body here. It’s like a loan taken from mother earth and when death arrived the loan will be taken back completely.

What is the source of this mind? When we born, we don’t know anything. Now, we have lot of memories and these memories are recycling every moment. How these data accumulated? Just we collect the impressions through the five sensory organs from our birth to till this moment. The fact is that, we can’t think anything new which is not in our experience. We may mix the experiences and we can certify ourselves, that is the new thought/idea. For example, we may claim that, I can imagine an animal which will have ten wings, lengthy legs, big head…etc. and fighting that, this is a new idea or thought which is not exist. Fundamentally what happened in this process is, you have mixed variety of animals and birds what was in your experience. So, the thoughts are nothing but the recycling process of the impressions what we have gathered till this moment.

What is the source of emotions? The meeting point of the body and mind called emotions. If no body and no mind, then nothing can happen as the emotions. The simple example is the dead body.

What is life energy? We all know, some energy is inside, but we don’t know exactly where it is. When it goes out, we are not going to be called by our name, just people called us “Dead-Body”.

Now, look at ourselves genuinely without any judgement. Which factor influencing our life? Predominantly by the mind. The thoughts running our mind leading our life all the time. If the thoughts are negative, we all know, we are going to lead a pathetic life and the future is full of fear. If the thoughts are positive, our future is full of hope. End of the day, it’s just a thought.

Future is in front of us. We have two paths.

– Path of Fear

– Path of Hope

If we are kept on thinking about, what will happen to me, my family, my job etc., we are choosing the path of fear. It’s nothing but the fear of suffering. Anyway, the future is uncertain, and anything can happen any time. Then, why we need to worry? Lets’ live with the thought, whatever happen let it happen. It’s going to be another experience in my life. That’s all. Now, with this thought we are shifting the gear towards the path of Hope.

We can always choose a thought, everything is going to be fine for me. I am lucky, I am successful person, I am going to achieve whatever I want in my life. These are all again just thoughts. If we live with these thoughts all the moments, we are in the path of Hope. We are going to live an abundant life. Be a habitual compulsive “good” finder. Our future begins today. Humongous opportunities are waiting for us.

Now, choice is yours? Path of Fear or Path of Hope?

I am wishing you a future of Most and more…

Every human being born as a champion and a front-runner. The fact is, one sperm leading out of approx.70 million sperms reach the womb. That’s nothing but you and me, we came into this world. By birth, we lead and win out of 70 million contestants. We born and came as a leader in this world.

Then, where those leadership potentials went? The challenge after we born, we are conditioned from our mother’s womb. Our father says Engineer is on the way, Uncle says Doctor is on the way, the list goes on. We like it or don’t like it, everyone neighboring will start taming us. Parents, teachers, friends, family, neighbors, society, the list goes on. Then, we started pretentious ourselves as who we are is what others say about us. That’s how the mind constructed with restrictions & limitations and sluggishly we accept ourselves as the confines of those.

Just take a minute to think consciously. What all are the filth we permitted ourselves to laid on us. You can’t be a leader, you can only do this much, you can’t do that… etc. These all are, just the opinions of others. Not the truths. You can be efficacious, as one thought. You are going to flop, is just another thought. It’s all about which thought we would like to forage to cultivate? It’s up to us.

In my perspective, a couple of behaviors or factors stalling our growth,

– Laziness

– Procrastination

– Fear of Failure/Suffering/Losing

– Reluctance/diffidence

– Complacency

– Projection

– What others think

– Inaction

– Indiscipline

– Give-up

If we can come out of those, we can do whatever we want to accomplish in our life. Next time, when we are dodging doing something, ask the question willfully, because of the above factors am I not doing now, then consciously break that pattern and do it instantly. We contest ourselves with the thought, I want to do it because I want to break the languor, or I want to break the procrastination. Whatever can be the consequence, let it be. I am not really bothered about the outcome, but I want to enjoy the course of doing. Tomorrow whatever going to happen, let it happen and it’s going to be another experience in my life. Just keep these thoughts top of our mind.

My master offered me a mantra to flourish anything and I am sharing it here,

The mantra is, if you want to succeed anything, you must focus on only two things,

What is the environment to be created?

and

What is the process to be followed?

For example, if we want to cook the rice what do we do?

Step-1: Take a pot

Step-2: Put a choked rice

Step-3: Water it

Step-4: lit the fire

Step-5: Wait for some time

Step-6: Now the cooked rice is ready

In the above, we just create the environment with essential ingredients and follow the process from Step-1 to Step-6. That’s all. Everything ensued unsurprisingly. It’s all about to gain the acquaintance of the universal laws about what the environment to be created and what the process to be followed. That’s all and that’s simple.

So, always be a successful person is such a simple progression.

Impossible is not a fact, it’s just a thought.

“You can” also a thought & “You can’t” also a thought.

So, consciously come out of the boundaries of our mind and attain our desires whatever it can be. Success is always ours. All the very best!!!